I’ve tried really hard in my life to keep body and soul together even when it feels like the world is crumbling on my dear self. The process of letting go certain extraneous conjurations that were initiated as a result of ignorant treaties between my mind and spirit, seems easy especially talking about it. But, hey! It’s not. Although, thinking about it now and knowing that I can actually summount anything that comes my way as long as it doesn’t kill me, gives me some kind of relief. Now, for me, life is a roller coaster and must be approached with a ‘serious’ amusement because as much as you’d want to expect many switchbacks, a part of you should possess some authoritative, self aggrandizing principles and that is where confidence comes in.
It takes confidence to place purpose on your intentionality; to conquer with many shades of waiver, the various impositions of the realities embedded on your custom human existence; to multiply your chances at proving yourself to your own self, with profound devotion and respect. It takes confidence to be more enthralling; to gratify your personality with quality self enthronement, not in the way that the world may envisage but in the way that is unique to you and your symbolic path, which of course, is created with unrefined designs targeted at harmonizing the entirety of your being.
Now, confidence is not one sided, there should be a twin defence existing to create a balanced force and that is why, capitally, while you’re on a great side of Privilege, you should endeavour to balance that awesomely uncommon weight with a reproof aimed at yeilding rejections to realistic essentials of less value, providing your esteem with manifolds of convictions and feeding your growth with positive presumptions.
Moving on, I’d say that you enable a self-imposed but healthy meeting with yourself because that is the point where firmness and trust for your abilities are developed. These conversations imbue on one’s aspirations, an assurance that it only gets better. To the world, you’re just one other breathing framework but to humanity and it’s reality, you’re made of weights and counter weights and this particular attribute is what shields your becoming. Yes! So, Go ahead, create that enablement!