Perfection has always been a context being strived to be attained, every single day both in conscious ways and otherwise. However, it seems really like a battle for the fittest, which infact, should not be the situation.
In almost every personal Life, Career & Relationship battle, the underlying quest is always.. “the perfect way to win this” and perfection in this context, has put a clearly avoidable pressure on many, leading to the most realistic but unpalatable effects experienced in a person’s life. Periodically and in diverse environments, there is always a subtle competition evident in the air because deep down, everybody feels a perfect personality and every individual’s thought and processes seem completely worthy. There’s absolutely no half measures when it comes to an average individual’s feeling about himself- ignorantly or otherwise.
But, who is even the most qualified?
I ask this question because a lot goes on in the field of competence; a lot happens within the authentic confines of reality and this is the reason there are always distinctions in value, differences in the ways individuals operate in their various worth and also a clear mandate designed separately for individuals. That is why, to expose my own ideology, there is no over or under qualification when it comes to being a part of the human existence because to each, is given a measure, proportionate to his abilities and compatibility with the universe and that is also why everyone can neither go through same experience nor do the same thing, the same way.
Just probably, ‘Variety’ is the expected qualification after all is said and done and this same ‘variety’ is ultimately seen in one’s capability to embrace changes as it comes and to accept the innate differences in every individual and adjust to circumstances as they advance or transit. And Variety, as a matter of utmost importance should be duly embraced as a tool for adding some essence to your individuality, in preparedness for inevitable life events such as; earning an income, getting married, having a child, securing your health, migration, etc.
Finally, do not fight, for the sake of subtle competition between you and your human counterparts just to attain a certain qualification or more because there is no such thing as “more perfect” than another. Rather, align your consciousness towards assortments of genuineness because it is better to engage an array of quality options which may involve collaborations and creative partnerships, than to compete for perfection’s interest, so as to enable you run your life according as you should, without fear of exposing your abilities as more or less. But then, ensure that your abilities remain significant and worthy of alliance.
©Nympha Chinenye Nzeribe