There’s absolutely nothing shameful about living your true expressions by either choosing to speak up when an action needs an address or a redress. Emotions are designed to be expressed—vocally, with audacity but sincerely. Pretence is an expression killer and it is widely advisable to stay away from those little forces that mirror hypocrisy. You need not to disguise your self to be an authentic part of the universal system. It is the variety that your existence brings to the table of the universe that it really needs. Nothing else. The universe thrives on diversity and that is why you must expose your colours in their very true nature and nothing otherwise.
As a parent, you should be worried if you’re raising a kid who is timid. Although there’s absolutely nothing wrong in having them quiet because a child could be quiet and still expressive. Yes that’s what I mean! Look out for that expression in your child and make sure you do not find it missing. Please. A custom self expression especially of boldness and assertion, is a life skill that will save that child from a lot of troubles. Trust me, when you meet a kid who has mastered the art and act of expression, you’d feel the difference.”Speaking up” has ignited great confidence in MANY, averted several mishaps that would have been and has stood the test of time in protecting the standards of Sincerity.
Personally, I intentionally launched myself into an audacious, self sincerity because growing up, I had a trace of low self esteem which led to bottling up several things. Infact, I started speaking up after my exposure to certain people, books and experiences. I also started sharing my identity for the earth to experience the moment I realised that I couldn’t really live to the fullest if there was no unique trace of me anywhere. I can proudly say I learnt from my sheer determination to stay out of the core stereotype of my upbringing which included but was not limited to “bottling up emotions”. I began to live life differently from what I was used to, to what it really should be— FULL OF EXPRESSION.
Encourage everyone around you to unleash their awesome nature. When they are happy, they should be able to express themselves fully and when they’re sad or going through ‘stuff’, they should also not hide that feeling. Individuals should be found exposing the truth of their constant realities by expressing themselves in words and in actions. Another truth is that you hardly find mischief in the corner of one who is up to gracing the world with his/her true self. This is not to erase the idea of “imperfection“, Who is without imperfections anyway? Absolutely none. Imperfections are the root of humanity little wonder, it is in imperfections that one’s lifestyle is made a perfect fit, for oneself and his/her environment (family, fans, et all)
As individuals, we should always be able to translate our emotions to total uncovering. If not, we would live in self denial— the worst kind of denial. Imagine starving yourself of your expressions. “O wrong na!“. Watch people that have been shamed into forever silence, they didn’t and never intended to possess the courage to express themselves. If you can, I know you will!, Stay away from people, ideas and circumstances that help you to question your authenticity. Your circle matters. You already know the outcome of a company of mediocres.
Life is filled with boxes and free spaces. You can choose to put yourself in a box and not experience the liberty that lies in the fullness of your existence or you can choose to break the jinx of laidbackness and Live like it’s no man’s business. Then, you’ll discover several tickets to several opportunities. Think about this — the fact that you got a second chance, is largely because you chose to let it all out. Dwelling in your shells blesses you with the curse of stagnancy. That is why some people in their shallowness have refused to unlearn the notion “opportunity comes only but once”. No! that’s a defeatist notion to make you beat yourself all up and be stuck in a path laced with unworthiness instead of moving.
Moving on, do not let any body’s myopic mentality to shove you into being a shadow of your own self. Mistakes? yeah! They are bound to happen and life have been designed in several ways , one of which is the fact that after you fall, you can get up and try again, and again. And that’s so fair of dear life, to give individuals a spot at many more chances after the first.☺️ Buddy, by all means and in all shades, let the world be honoured to feel the magic of your presence.
Live! Live! Live!