Nature
The human race is an equal race. All man has been birthed, raised and shown a way to go- Family, society and peers have done this! But there’s not an equal reality and this is because there are no custom experience to one’s birth, development or field of expertise…
When it comes to the birth of a baby, a woman’s pregnancy experience differs from the other woman and even within her, differs from pregnancy to pregnancy; the raising of a child is not left out in its uniqueness from the other, some are raised in affluent families, obviously fed with the proverbial silver spoon while others have the privilege of eating with a rubber spoon and some, no spoon at all, some are raised by both parents, some single parents, some in orphanage homes, some even homeless and in the streets; the development of a person manifests in several dimensions.. the exceptional, the average, the slow. While some are able to string words together in sentences, some can’t, while some are terribly confident, some are shy, while some can set boundaries in the things they allow their way, some don’t, while some learn from their shortcomings, others don’t and while many are thriving in their set endeavours, many others are struggling or (in a more general parlance) hustling…
The mantra “the grass is not greener on the other side” is a defeatist movement, totally cliché and out of the dictionaries of the adventurous – have you wondered why there is good, and there is better? Also ever wondered why it’s a world of opposites -white and black, tall and short, good and bad (…) ?
I don’t believe that because I failed in a thing, a project, relationship, then I feel that even if I explore that same thing in another way or with another person that it’s likely not going to be a good turn out (as supposedly usual). Things go wrong and people in trying to pat themselves on the back with pity parties begin to talk about how it may not be better elsewhere. Inside life! It’s weird but you should know that a different thing is going on out there, different people, diverse modus operandi, different knowledge, different approach, different experiences. There’s no manual to how a thing should be- good or better. How ever it turns out to be shouldn’t dissuade the fact that you can try again, in a different way, environment and even with a different person.
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